I've been thinking for a few months now about the goals that are attainable and the goals that are impossible.
I'm sure you have all heard of the dog that likes to chase his tail. Endlessly. Never to catch it... always to chase.
Well, sometimes I think it is good for us to realize that sometimes we need to let the chase go! Sometimes what we want is impossible. It doesn't exist.
Take this quote for instance... "The grass is greener on the other side." Well, let me tell ya, I really don't think it is!
And for another instance... That perfect person, who you think has it all together... doesn't. It is a total facade! I know this because many people this year have told me that they think I have it all together... haha, if you only knew me. Seriously... just ask
her, or
her, or
her!
So I've been really trying to be "authentic" or to learn what that even means for me. I'd like to find out who I am right now. I know who I was in the past, I know I am not that person anymore. Parts of me are, but I've grown, changed and hopefully improved. I know who I want to be in the future, or better yet, I know how I want to
feel about myself and my life. Now it's just a matter of figuring out who I am now. Aside from being a mother and a wife-FIRST and MOST IMPORTANTLY! But, I truly believe that loving yourself and being true to yourself makes you better at being both of those!
I heard a phrase the other day... I'm going to change it slightly... than try it on for a while and see if it works for me! It goes like this.
"Don't change yourself to fit the life, change the life to fit YOU!"